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Why the Ibadi do not say ‘Amin’ in the prayers.

“Successful indeed are the believers, those who offer their prayers with all solemnity and full submissiveness khāshiʿūna.” (Qur’an 23:1-2)

“Nay, seek (Allah’s) help with patient perseverance and prayer: It is indeed hard, except to those who (l-khāshiʿīna)bring a lowly spirit.” (Qur’an 2:45)

“Be guardians of your prayers, and of the midmost prayer, and stand up with (qānitīna)devotion to Allah.” (Qur’an 2:238)

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The status of the word ‘amin’.

Know dear readers and seekers of truth that Amin is by consensus (ijmā’) not part of the Qur’an, due to its absence from the Imām Codex (the official Uthmanic manuscript) between the two covers of which the Companions (may Allah be pleased with them) unanimously agreed to record everything that was Qur’an and to exclude everything that was not.

Copies of this codex were distributed across major cities and shared throughout the Muslim nation without anyone raising an objection to any part of it. These copies have served as the authoritative basis for transmitting the Qur’an generation after generation down to our present day.

Jurists, exegetes, and other scholars have explicitly stated its non-Qur’anic status. Here is what the renowned exegete Abū Ḥayyān stated in his grand commentary, Al-Baḥr al-Muḥīṭ:

“Likewise, they meaning the exegetes discussed Amin, its linguistic variants, the differences regarding its meaning, and its ruling in prayer; however, it is not part of the Qur’an, which is why we have disregarded discussing it altogether.”

Al-Ālūsī also stated in his commentary, Rūḥ al-Maʿānī:

“And it is not part of the Qur’an by consensus… [up to his statement:] to the extent that several scholars mentioned that whoever claims *Āmīn* is part of the Qur’an has committed disbelief.”

Since the word Amin is non-Qur’anic, it falls under human speech, and human speech has been established as prohibited during prayer after having been initially permissible.  We will give our evidence with the permission of Allah.

Our first and strongest evidence.

The consensus (ijmā’) of our scholars across the centuries, and the fact that prayer is a practical, mass-transmitted act of worship. This is the mass transmitted sunnah with us.

As for us, the consensus (ijmā’) of our companions may Allah the Exalted have mercy on them across the centuries is sufficient for us. Prayer is a practical, outwardly manifest act of worship that has been transmitted from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) generation after generation, down to our present day. We know of no disagreement among our scholars, whether of the earlier or later generations, regarding the issues of prayer among them, the impermissibility of saying “Amin” after al-Fatiha.

Supporting evidence.

The occasion of the revelation of the Qur’an.

“Be guardians of your prayers, and of the midmost prayer, and stand up with devotion to Allah.” (Qur’an 2:238)

Mu’awiya b. al-Hakam said:

Zaid b. Arqam reported:

We used to talk while engaged in prayer and a person talked with a companion on his side in prayer till (this verse) was revealed: “And stand before Allah in devout obedience” (ii, 238) and we were commanded to observe silence (in prayer) and were forbidden to speak.

Source: (https://sunnah.com/muslim:539a)

Zaid bin Arqam narrated:

“We used to talk behind Allah’s Messenger (Saw) during the Salat, a man among us would talk to his companions next to him until (the following) was revealed: “And stand before Allah with obedience”. (2:238) So we were ordered to be silent and prohibited from talking.”

Source: (https://sunnah.com/tirmidhi:405)

The word they understood as a command to stop speaking is:

قَانِتِينَ (qānitīn)

It appears at the end of the verse:

وَقُومُوا لِلَّهِ قَانِتِينَ

(“…and stand before Allah as qānitīn.”)

قَانِتِينَ is the plural of قَانِت (qānit), which carries meanings including:

  • Obedient / devoutly obedient
  • Silent / keeping quiet
  • Standing in humility and submission.

This means the companions used to talk during the prayer and even to each other. However, they understood from the occasion of this verse that they should no longer do so. Such practice was abrogated.

The explicit command of the Blessed Prophet (saw).

Mu’awiyah b. al-Hakam al-Sulami said ; when I came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) I learnt many things about islam. One of the things that I was taught was that it was that it was pointed out me. When you sneeze, praise Allah (I,e, say “praise be to Allah”); and when someone sneezes and praises Allah, say “ May Allah have mercy on you. Meanwhile I was standing along with the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him) during prayer, all of a sudden a man sneezed, and he praised Allah. So I said, “may Allah have mercy on you”, in a loud voice. The people gave me disapproving looks so much so that I took ill of it. So I said :

what do you mean by looking at me with furtive glances. Then they glorified Allah. When the prophet (ﷺ) finished his prayer, he asked; who was the speaker? The Prophet told him; this Bedouin. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) called me and said to me: Prayer is meant for the recitation of the Quran, and making mention of Allah. When you are in it (prayer), this should be your work therein. I never saw an instructor more lenient than the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)

Source: (https://sunnah.com/abudawud:931)

“He said: I prayed behind the Messenger of Allah, May Allah bless him and grant him peace, one day and a man from the people sneezed, so I said: May Allah have mercy on you, so the people looked at me with their eyes, so I said: May my mother be bereaved of me, what is the matter with you that you are looking at me? He said: So they struck their thighs with their hands. When I saw them silencing me, I kept quite until the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) finished praying. Then he called me. He said: By my father and mother, I have never seen a teacher before or after him who taught better than him. He neither struck me, nor rebuked me, nor insulted me. He said: “This prayer is not a place for such human speech. Rather, It is for glorification, magnification, and reading the Qur’an.”

Source: (https://hadithunlocked.com/ahmad:23762)

“This prayer is not suitable for any human speech; it is only for glorification, magnification, and recitation of the Quran.”

Source: (https://dorar.net/h/AD43asTu?utm)

How do we undertand this? We understand that the Blessed Prophet (saw) is telling us:

“Indeed, in this prayer of ours, nothing of people’s speech is valid; it is only tasbih (glorification), takbir (saying Allahu Akbar), tahmid (praising Allah), and the recitation of the Qur’an.”

There is no doubt that the word “Amin” is not among these. For it is neither part of the Qur’an nor any of the things mentioned. Nothing of people’s speech is valid in prayer. Only tasbih, takbir, tahmid, and the Qur’an recitation and “Amin” falls outside these categories.

Abdullah (b. Masu’d) reported:

We used to greet the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) while he was engaged in prayer and he would respond to our greeting. But when we returned from the Negus we greeted him and he did not respond to us; so we said: Messenger of Allah. we used to greet you when you were engaged in prayer and you would respond to us. He replied: Prayer demands whole attention.

Source: (https://sunnah.com/muslim:538a)

Narrated Abdullah ibn Mas’ud:

We used to salute during prayer and talk about our needs. I came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and found him praying. I saluted him, but he did not respond to me. I recalled what happened to me in the past and in the present.

When the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) finished his prayer, he said to me: Allah, the Almighty, creates new command as He wishes, and Allah, the Exalted, has sent a fresh command that you must not talk during prayer. He then returned my salutation.

Source: (https://sunnah.com/abudawud:924)

Therefore, if it were [permitted], meaning reciting ‘amin’ it would fall under the abrogated matters that are prohibited; and it is not permissible to act upon the abrogated.

That is to say that the hadith on the matter that have reached us are ‘sahih’ or sound. However with us the living sunnah takes priority over documented sunnah that may or may not still be acted upon.

Let us give you an example. Think carefully about the evidence that you have read above.

Examples of abrogation of practice during the prayer.

Narrated Abu Hurairah:

That the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) came out to Ubayy bin Ka’b, and the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “O Ubayy!” And he was performing Salat, so Ubayy turned around but he did not respond to him, so Ubayy finished his Salat quickly. Then he turned to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and said: ‘As-Salamu ‘Alaikum, O Messenger of Allah!’ The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: ‘Wa ‘Alaikum As-Salam – what prevented you from responding to me when I called you Ubayy?’ He said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! I was performing Salat.‘ So he said: ‘Do you not find among what Allah revealed to me: Respond to Allah and to the Messenger when they call you to what gives you life?’ He said: ‘Of course, I shall not repeat that, if Allah wills.’ He said: ‘Would you like for me to teach you a Surah the likes of which has neither been revealed in the Tawrah, nor the Injil, nor the Zabur, nor in the entire Qur’an?’ He said: “Yes, O Messenger of Allah!’ The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: ‘What do you recite in your Salat?’ He said: ‘I recite Umm Al-Qur’an.’ So the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: ‘By the One in Whose Hand is my soul! The like of it has neither been revealed in the Tawrah, nor the Injil nor the Zabur, nor in the Furqan. It is the seven oft-repeated, and the Magnificent Qur’an which I was given.'”

Source: (https://sunnah.com/tirmidhi:2875)

So is more than one way to understand the implications of the above hadith.

Notice that the reason Ubayy bin K’ab (ra) gave for not responding to the Messenger of Allah (saw):

He said: ‘O Messenger of Allah! I was performing Salat.‘

This means that Ubayy bin K’ab (ra) could have been aware of the ruling that prohibits talking during the prayer.

However, the Messenger of Allah (swt) introduces an exception by quoting the verse of the Qur’an:

“O believers! Respond to Allah and His Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life.” (Qur’an 8:24)

Or this hadith can be understood by another way.

That is that this verse: “O believers! Respond to Allah and His Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life.” (Qur’an 8:24) was later restricted. In otherwords it was not abrogated but it was restricted to answer the Blessed Messenger (saw) after the prayer.

This is why Hadith < Fiqh. You can have a hadith but the understanding is what is important.

Likewise: Docummented Sunnah < Living Sunnah.

There is grounds to believe that ‘Amin’ is not actually Arabic in its origin. However, this article is not the time or place to wade into the weeds-so to speak.

The Qur’an indicates the phrase “Our Lord, accept this from us” (رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا) after prayer. This phrase appears in (Qur’an 2:127), where Prophet Ibrahim and Prophet Ismail (peace be upon them) supplicate while raising the foundations of the Kaaba:

رَبَّنَا تَقَبَّلْ مِنَّا ۖ إِنَّكَ أَنتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
“Our Lord, accept [this] from us. Indeed, You are the Hearing, the Knowing.”

This verse demonstrates that the Qur’an itself provides a specific supplication for acceptance after an act of worship, distinct from the Hebrew-origin “Amen.”

What about the Tashahhud?

Don’t worry dear readers we are one step ahead insh’Allah.

One cannot object against us by citing the continued legitimacy of *Taḥmīd* (praising Allah) and *Tashahhud* in prayer; for *Taḥmīd* falls under the category of *Tasbīḥ* (glorification), while *Tashahhud*though not Qurʾān consists entirely of glorifying Allah Almighty and Majestic, and holds a special status. The Prophet (peace and blessings of God be upon him) gave it meticulous care, as evidenced by Ibn Masʿūd’s statement:

Narrated Ibn Mas`ud:

Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) taught me the Tashah-hud as he taught me a Sura from the Qur’an, while my hand was between his hands. (Tashah-hud was) all the best compliments and the prayers and the good things are for Allah. Peace and Allah’s Mercy and Blessings be on you, O Prophet! Peace be on us and on the pious slaves of Allah, I testify that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah, and I also testify that Muhammad is Allah’s slave and His Apostle. (We used to recite this in the prayer) during the lifetime of the Prophet (ﷺ) , but when he had died, we used to say, “Peace be on the Prophet.”

Source: (https://sunnah.com/bukhari:6265)

For those who want to see the Tashahhud from the Sunnah of the Blessed Messenger (saw) as understood by our school you may see the following:

This clearly indicates that it carries the ruling of Qurʾānic recitation during prayer. Moreover, the consensus of the Muslim community (*ijmāʿ*) regarding the non-abrogation of *Taḥmīd* and *Tashahhud* in prayer serves as sufficient proof that they are excluded from abrogated speech and that which is agreed upon is not comparable to that which is disputed.

Furthermore, know that the methodology of our scholars concerning prayer is that of legal precaution (*Iḥtiyāṭ*). That is adopting only those narrations surrounding which there is no shadow of doubt in disputed matters. This is because prayer is the second pillar of Islam, coming directly after creed (*ʿAqīdah*). Verifying scholars across various schools of thought do not accept solitary reports (*Aḥād* traditions) as binding proof in creedal matters because they do not yield absolute certainty (*qaṭʿ*); thus, prayer being adjacent to creed in rank is all the more worthy of such caution.

Furthermore, some scholars have stated that the prayer practiced by our companions is established by consensus, because the actions they omit are themselves subject to disagreement among others, and those who advocate those actions do not view their omission as invalidating the prayer. This alone suffices as proof for the validity of the prayer of one who does not pronounce *Āmīn*.

Do recall this was our first and strongest evidence.

If anyone should denounce us for omitting the *aʾmīn*, the response to him is that it would be more fitting for him to denounce those who omit the *Basmalah* which IS a verse from the Book of Allah, recorded in all codices by consensus than to denounce those who omit *aʾmīn*, which is consensus-proven to be non-Qurʾānic. And Allah knows best.

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The Jurisprudence of Hajj. Step by Step part 1 with Shaykh Abdul Munim bin Rashid Al-Saidi

“Complete the pilgrimage and minor pilgrimage for Allah.” (Qur’an 2:196)

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May Allah (swt) bless and accept the noble Shaykh for teaching us how to perform the Hajj in accordance with the Qur’an and Sunnah. May all who follow this guide remember the blessed Shaykh in their du’a and may this teaching be a witness for the Shaykh on the day of reckoning. Amin.

Hajj Step by Step | From the Moment of Preparation to Arriving at the Miqat | Shaykh Abdul Munim bin Rashid Al-Saidi(h)

Allah is the greatest, Allah is the greatest, Allah is the greatest. There is no god but Allah.

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. Praise be to Allah, Lord of all worlds. Praise be to Allah, by whose grace righteous deeds are completed. Through obedience to Him, life becomes pleasant and blessings descend. I send prayers and peace upon the bringer of glad tidings and warner, the illuminated lamp—the best of those who prayed, fasted, and circumambulated the Sacred House. May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him, his family, his honorable companions, and upon all who follow his path and tread his way until the Day of Judgment. May He grant them abundant peace.

To proceed: My brothers and sisters, dear viewers, I greet you with the pleasant and blessed greeting of Islam: Peace be upon you all, and the mercy of Allah and His blessings.

We meet in this good and blessed gathering to discuss an important topic that concerns every Muslim, especially those who are about to present themselves to Allah, heading to the Sacred House of Allah to perform one of the rituals of Islam—the ritual of Hajj to the Sacred House of Allah.

At the beginning of this blessed gathering, we open with that which is best. I say: “My Lord, expand my chest for me, ease my affair for me, and untie the knot from my tongue so that they may understand my speech.” O Allah, teach us what benefits us, and benefit us by what You have taught us. Indeed, You are the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing.

We will discuss this topic through several axes, taking them one by one, and we will pause to consider some rulings related to each axis.

When a person resolves to perform Hajj to the Sacred House of Allah, what must he do before setting out to perform this ritual? There are several matters the pilgrim must attend to before heading to Allah to perform this great ritual. We will pause to consider some of these matters that the pilgrim does before going to perform this ritual.

First: He must purify his intention for Allah, because sincerity is the basis for acceptance of deeds. Allah says in the Noble Book: “And they were not commanded except to worship Allah, being sincere to Him in religion, inclining to truth, and to establish prayer and to give zakah. And that is the correct religion.” The correct religion that Allah desires from His servants is the religion based on sincerity to Allah in deeds. He also says: “Say, ‘Indeed, I have been commanded to worship Allah, being sincere to Him in religion.'” In the hadith that the Prophet (peace be upon him) relates from his Lord—a sacred hadith—Allah says: “I am the most self-sufficient of all partners. Whoever does a deed in which he associates others with Me, I leave him and his association.” Therefore, everyone, when performing any act of worship, must be sincere to Allah, seeking only Allah’s Face, not hoping for praise, mention, commendation, or anything from people. Rather, he seeks Allah’s pleasure by that deed, so that the deed may be purely for Allah and thus more worthy of acceptance.

Second: He must make sincere, genuine repentance (tawbah nasūḥ) from every sin and transgression. Repentance is something Allah has encouraged and urged His servants to do: “O you who have believed, repent to Allah with sincere repentance.” Allah has promised the believing servants that He will accept their repentance, forgive their misdeeds, and that He is the One who accepts repentance from His servants and pardons evil deeds. He gives glad tidings to His believing servants that He will accept them if they come to Him: “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves, indeed I am the Forgiving, the Merciful.” Therefore, it is fitting for the one heading to the Sacred House of Allah to purify his inner self through repentance from every sin and transgression before purifying his body by bathing for Ihrām.

Third: As a requirement of sincere repentance, he must settle all obligations, whether these obligations are between him and Allah or between him and other people. Someone might ask: “For example, what obligations between him and Allah?” These could be expiations (kaffārāt) that he must discharge before coming to Allah for this ritual. Or there might be days he owes to make up from Ramadan, which he should fast before setting out. Or there might be vows (nudhūr) he needs to fulfill before coming to Allah. These are obligations between him and Allah.

There might also be obligations between him and other people—rights or wrongs he must restore to their owners. Sincere repentance is not complete until rights are returned to their owners. Sins are of two types: sins between the servant and his Lord, and sins between the servant and his fellow. As for sins between him and his Lord, if he repents, Allah accepts his repentance.

But as for sins between him and his fellow, he must restore the right to its owner for Allah to accept his repentance. The Prophet (peace be upon him) severely warned against taking people’s rights unjustly and commanded believers to return even the smallest items—imagine, O servants of Allah, how much is a thread or a needle worth? A very small, almost negligible thing. Yet he (peace be upon him) said: “Return the thread and the needle.” He warned against anyone seizing a right from another without justification. “Whoever seizes a right from his brother by his oath has obligated the Fire for himself and forbidden Paradise for himself.” One of the Companions asked: “Even if it is something small, O Messenger of Allah?” He said: “Even if it is a twig from an arāk tree.” How much is an arāk twig worth? A small, insignificant thing. Yet it may lead its owner to become among the people of the Fire, may Allah protect us. Therefore, before coming to Allah to perform this great ritual, a person must settle all obligations between himself and others. Likewise, he must reconcile with people. If there are disputes or enmity between him and someone, he must seek absolution and resolve these matters before going for this ritual.

Suppose this person tries to reconcile with the other party, but the other party refuses. Does he bear any sin? No, because he initiated goodness and took the first step. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a Muslim to abandon his brother for more than three nights. They meet, and this one turns away and that one turns away. The better of them is the one who gives the greeting of peace first.” So if you are the one who initiates and takes the first step, you gain that virtue, even if the other party is not pleased, even if the other party refuses. You have earned the reward and gained the blessing.

There are other matters the pilgrim must attend to before setting out, including:

Learning the rituals: He must learn how to perform this ritual for one purpose: to perform the worship according to what Allah desires. The best way to worship Allah is with knowledge. If a servant performs worship without knowledge—i.e., ignorantly—he is rarely safe from mistakes. These mistakes may cause the worship to be invalid without his realizing it. Many people have fallen into issues due to ignorance that led to their Hajj being invalidated. Imagine a person spends his wealth, exhausts his body, leaves his family, is away from his homeland, and then returns only to find his Hajj invalid. What caused it? Failure to learn how to perform these rituals. Praise be to Allah, the means of learning are now available. Comprehensive books exist, as do concise ones, and clips from scholars and virtuous people are widespread on internet sites and networks. Your watching of this blessed course is part of this—a means of learning how to perform this blessed ritual. Therefore, be keen, may Allah bless you, to learn and to ask the people of knowledge and virtue about every matter that arises.

I draw attention here to a mistake many people make, especially in the rituals of Hajj. What is this mistake? A pilgrim encounters an issue and acts without asking. Then, after doing it, he comes to the scholars and says: “I did such and such, what is the ruling?” This is a mistake, my brothers and sisters. Rather, the principle is that a person should not act until he asks. Allah says: “And do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge. Indeed, the hearing, the sight, and the heart—about all those will be questioned.” A person should not fall into an issue without asking about it first. He should not act until he asks, so that he performs it correctly, avoiding mistakes that might lead to rulings that are difficult to fulfill.

Writing a will: Before setting out to perform this ritual, he should write his will. The principle for a believer is that his will should always be ready and written down. The Prophet (peace be upon him) mentioned concerning the believer that if he has something to bequeath, he should not spend a night without having his will written at his head. This means it should always be present, because a person does not know when the vicissitudes of fate will surprise him. Therefore, he should not set out for this ritual without having written his will. Someone might ask: “What should I write in my will?” First, he writes what he bequeaths to his family and relatives regarding kindness, goodness, and good conduct—advising them to fear Allah. Second, he writes what he owes to Allah in terms of rights. As we mentioned earlier, if there are obligations to Allah—such as vows, making up missed fasts, or expiations—and the person could not fulfill them before his travel time, he records them in his will so that if Allah decrees his death and he does not return from this journey, his heirs execute what he bequeathed. Likewise, he writes the rights that others owe him—debts if he lent money to people, or deposits left with others that belong to him. He also writes in his will if he holds deposits or trusts belonging to others, especially if it is money, because the heirs do not know whether this money is his or someone else’s; they might think it is his and distribute it as inheritance, when in fact it belongs to others or was entrusted to him for a period of time. So he must record those deposits in his will so that people’s rights are not lost. He also writes bequests for relatives—allocating a sum of money to be distributed to close relatives who are not heirs after his death. Allah commanded this in the Noble Book. He also writes in his will what he wishes to bequeath for various charitable purposes—setting aside part of his wealth for ongoing charity (ṣadaqah jāriyah), to be used for works or good causes whose benefit and reward return to him even while in his grave. He records all of this in his will, then has it witnessed by two witnesses. If he registers it officially with a notary, that is better. He leaves this will with a trustworthy person and instructs him to execute it if Allah decrees that he does not return from this blessed journey.

Lastly: He must always remember Allah throughout this blessed journey, remembering Him in his home and on his travels, at all times and in all situations, frequently remembering Allah and keeping his tongue moist with His remembrance throughout the journey. Allah commanded believers to remember Him often: “O you who have believed, remember Allah with much remembrance, and exalt Him morning and evening.” Allah commanded His believing servants to remember Him frequently because remembrance brings tranquility to the heart and peace of mind. Allah says: “Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured.” Therefore, the one heading to the Sacred House of Allah should keep his tongue occupied with Allah’s remembrance constantly, from the time he sets out—even before—and continue this throughout his journey, occupying himself with obedience. This is a season of good deeds, and the wise person is he who seizes opportunities—the opportunities of time are only for those who seize them.

The next axis in our discussion of the rulings of Hajj rituals in this jurisprudential course concerns the mīqāt (designated places and times). We will discuss the time-based mīqāt and the place-based mīqāt.

Time-based mīqāt: This is the time period that Allah prescribed for performing the Hajj ritual. Hajj is in “well-known months” (ashhur ma‘lūmāt) as Allah said. The months of Hajj are Shawwāl, Dhul-Qa‘dah, and the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah. These are the months of Hajj. What this means is that whoever intends to perform Hajj Tamattu‘ must perform his ‘Umrah during this period. If he performs it before that, it does not count as ‘Umrah for Tamattu‘. If someone goes in Ramadan, performs ‘Umrah in Ramadan, then remains in Makkah until the time of the Hajj rituals, does this ‘Umrah suffice him for ‘Umrah al-Tamattu‘? The answer is no, because ‘Umrah al-Tamattu‘ must be performed during the months of Hajj we just mentioned. This is called the time-based mīqāt.

Place-based mīqāt: These are locations specified by the Prophet (peace be upon him) as mīqāt. It is not permissible for anyone heading to the Sacred House of Allah for Hajj or ‘Umrah to pass beyond these places without having entered Ihrām. He absolutely cannot pass them without Ihrām. What are these five locations? We will show them in the following segment:

The journey of glorification begins from the mīqāt. On the way to Makkah, every pilgrim passes by his designated mīqāt. The place-based mīqāt are:

  • Dhul-Hulayfah (Abyār ‘Ali) for the people of Madinah.
  • Al-Juhfah (Rābigh) for the people of the Levant (Shām).
  • Qarn al-Manāzil (Al-Sayl al-Kabīr) for the people of Najd.
  • Yalamlam (Al-Sa‘diyyah) for the people of Yemen.
  • Dhāt ‘Irq for the people of Iraq.
    These mīqāt are for their people and for anyone who passes by them from other regions. The people of Makkah enter Ihrām from “Adnā al-Ḥill,” which is outside the boundaries of the sanctuary. It is from the Sunnah for a traveler passing by land to go to the mīqāt and form the intention for ‘Umrah, saying: “Labbayka Allāhumma labbayk, labbayka ‘Umrah.” If he fears being unable to reach the sanctuary, he may make a condition by saying: “Fa in ḥabasani ḥābisun fa maḥilli ḥaythu ḥabastani” (If something prevents me, my place of removal is where I am prevented). As for one passing parallel to the mīqāt—such as a traveler by air or sea—he must intend Ihrām when parallel to it, and it is not permissible for him to pass the mīqāt without Ihrām.

These are the place-based mīqāt from which the pilgrim enters Ihrām. What does the pilgrim do at Ihrām? Ihrām has several steps that the pilgrim must do upon reaching the mīqāt:

Step one: Bathing (ghusl). The pilgrim bathes as he would for major ritual impurity, i.e., covering his entire body with water. Someone might ask: “Can he use scented soap?” The answer is yes, because he will use the soap and then wash it off with water afterward—there is no religious prohibition.

Step two: Wearing Ihrām garments. As you can see, a man wears two pieces of cloth: one as a lower wrap (izār) and the other over his shoulders, covering them. As for the woman, she enters Ihrām in her ordinary clothes and wears a wide, covering, ample cloak over them, with no outward adornment.

Step three: If an obligatory prayer is due, he prays it. If he reaches the mīqāt at the time of Ẓuhr, he prays it, then enters Ihrām afterward. If he reaches at Maghrib time, he prays Maghrib, then enters Ihrām afterward. If he reaches the mīqāt at a time when no obligatory prayer is due, he may pray two rak‘ahs as a voluntary prayer (tahiyyat al-masjid), then enter Ihrām afterward.

Step four: He then specifies the type of ritual he will enter. You will soon learn about the three types of rituals for which a pilgrim enters Ihrām. He specifies the type and also specifies for whom the Hajj is—if performing Hajj for himself, he intends it for himself; if performing Hajj on behalf of someone else, he intends it for that person.

If he has bathed, put on Ihrām garments, prepared himself, and prayed if an obligatory prayer was due, and has formed the intention in his heart—is he now in a state of Ihrām? Not yet. When does he become in a state of Ihrām? When he begins the Talbiyah. The Talbiyah is the entry into the ritual, exactly like the opening takbīr (takbīrat al-iḥrām) in prayer. Just as the opening takbīr in prayer prohibits certain permissible things for the person (like eating, drinking, speaking, turning away, moving), similarly, the Talbiyah prohibits certain things for the one who recites it. It is not valid for him to do certain prohibited acts once he recites the Talbiyah. We will see what these prohibitions are shortly.

A note for those traveling by air: Someone going by plane may take one of three routes. He may go to Madinah, directly to Jeddah, or to Ta’if. Whoever goes to Madinah enters Ihrām after leaving Madinah from the mīqāt of Dhul-Hulayfah. Whoever goes to Ta’if will land at Ta’if airport, and upon leaving Ta’if, he will pass by the mīqāt of Al-Sayl al-Kabīr and enter Ihrām there. The third case is the one who flies directly to Jeddah. This person will pass by the mīqāt of Al-Sayl al-Kabīr while in the air. What must he do? Airlines announce the mīqāt half an hour before reaching it. At that point, the person should be ready and prepared to enter Ihrām before reaching the mīqāt. As soon as the announcement is made in the plane that the mīqāt is half an hour away, he prepares to enter Ihrām. My advice to my brothers is to wear the lower Ihrām garment (izār) before boarding the plane—either from home or from the last airport they depart from—and keep the other piece in their hand luggage. Then, when the announcement is made in the plane that the mīqāt is half an hour away, while still in his seat, he can remove his clothes and place the second piece of Ihrām cloth over his shoulders, then begin the Talbiyah. The most important thing I emphasize is that the one heading to the Sacred House of Allah should not wait for the second announcement in the plane. The second announcement indicates that the plane is passing over the mīqāt. Rather, he must enter Ihrām before reaching the mīqāt. Therefore, a few minutes after the first announcement, he should immediately put on the second piece of Ihrām cloth (if he hasn’t already) and then begin the Talbiyah. Once he recites the Talbiyah, he becomes in a state of Ihrām.

The wording of the Talbiyah: Someone might ask: “What is the wording of the Talbiyah that the pilgrim recites?” The Talbiyah is: “Labbayka Allāhumma labbayk, labbayka lā sharīka laka labbayk, inna al-ḥamda wa an-ni‘mata laka wa al-mulk, lā sharīka lak.” This same wording is used for all three types of ritual. What are the three types? Tamattu‘, Ifrād, and Qirān. Each of these three has a slightly different Talbiyah wording. Let us take them one by one.

First: Tamattu‘. This means the one who enters Ihrām for ‘Umrah, performs it completely, then exits the state of Ihrām. The wording of his Talbiyah: “Labbayka Allāhumma labbayk, labbayka lā sharīka laka labbayk, inna al-ḥamda wa an-ni‘mata laka wa al-mulk, lā sharīka lak. Labbayka ‘Umrah.” So he says: “Labbayka ‘Umrah.”

Second: Ifrād. This is the one who enters Ihrām for Hajj only, without performing ‘Umrah. When he recites the Talbiyah, he says: “Labbayka Allāhumma labbayk, labbayka lā sharīka laka labbayk, inna al-ḥamda wa an-ni‘mata laka wa al-mulk, lā sharīka lak. Labbayka Ḥajjah.” He says: “Labbayka Ḥajjah.” This is the same wording that the Mutamatti‘ says on the eighth day of Dhul-Hijjah when he enters Ihrām for Hajj, also saying: “Labbayka Ḥajjah.”

Third: Qirān. This means performing ‘Umrah completely but not exiting the Ihrām; he remains in the same Ihrām state and continues until the eighth day of Dhul-Hijjah, then enters the Hajj with the same Ihrām, combining ‘Umrah and Hajj in a single Ihrām. The wording he says is: “Labbayka Allāhumma labbayk, labbayka lā sharīka laka labbayk, inna al-ḥamda wa an-ni‘mata laka wa al-mulk, lā sharīka lak. Labbayka ‘Umratan wa Ḥajjah.” He says: “Labbayka ‘Umratan wa Ḥajjah,” combining the two rituals in one Ihrām.

These are the three wordings for the three types of rituals. I point out here: whoever goes to perform Hajj on behalf of someone else, after reciting the wording we mentioned, adds the name of the person on whose behalf he is performing Hajj. For example, if he is a Mutamatti‘, when entering Ihrām for ‘Umrah he says: “Labbayka ‘Umrah ‘an fulān” (or ‘an fulānah for a female). Then when entering Ihrām for Hajj on the eighth day, he says: “Labbayka Ḥajjah ‘an fulān” (or ‘an fulānah). When the pilgrim completes this wording, he becomes in a state of Ihrām, meaning he has entered the ritual of Ihrām, and consequently a set of prohibitions (muḥarramāt) apply to him.

But before we learn what these prohibitions are, let us watch this short segment that discusses the three types of rituals and what each entails.

Types of Hajj:

  • Ifrād: The pilgrim enters Ihrām for Hajj only, intending to perform Hajj without ‘Umrah. In his Talbiyah he says: “Labbayka Ḥajjah.” He then performs all the rites of Hajj and remains in Ihrām until exiting it on the Day of Nahr.
  • Tamattu‘: The pilgrim enters Ihrām intending ‘Umrah during the months of Hajj, saying in his Talbiyah for ‘Umrah: “Labbayka ‘Umrah.” He then exits Ihrām from ‘Umrah and remains in Makkah until he enters Ihrām for Hajj on the Day of Tarwiyah, saying in his Talbiyah for Hajj: “Labbayka Ḥajjah.”
  • Qirān: The pilgrim combines ‘Umrah and Hajj in a single ritual with one Ihrām, saying in his Talbiyah: “Labbayka ‘Umratan wa Ḥajjah.” He performs ‘Umrah and remains in Ihrām until he exits from both his ‘Umrah and Hajj on the Day of Nahr.

Pillars of Hajj (Arkān): It is not permissible to omit them, and Hajj is invalid without them:

  1. Ihrām
  2. Standing at ‘Arafah
  3. Tawāf around the House
  4. Sa‘y between Safa and Marwah

Obligations of Hajj (Wājibāt): It is not permissible to omit them, but if omitted, a sacrifice (dam) compensates:

  1. Entering Ihrām from the mīqāt
  2. Spending the night in Muzdalifah on the 10th night
  3. Stoning Jamrat al-‘Aqabah on the 10th day
  4. Slaughtering the sacrifice (for those obligated)
  5. Shaving or shortening the hair
  6. Spending the nights of Tashrīq in Minā

Once the pilgrim enters Ihrām by reciting the Talbiyah as described, he becomes in a state of Ihrām, and certain things become forbidden to him. These are the prohibitions (muḥarramāt) of Ihrām, which we will discuss at the beginning of the next episode of this jurisprudential course on the rituals of Hajj and ‘Umrah.

We will meet you again with goodness, may Allah bless you. Peace be upon you and the mercy and blessings of Allah.

Allah is the greatest, Allah is the greatest, Allah is the greatest. There is no god but Allah.

May Allah Guide the Ummah.

May Allah Forgive the Ummah.

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Eid Mubarak from Prima Qur’an.

“And (He desires) that you should complete the number and that you should exalt the greatness of Allah for His having guided you and that you may give thanks” (Qur’an 2:185)

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Eid Mubarak! May this blessed occasion fill your heart with joy, your home with warmth, and your life with countless blessings. May Allah grant you peace, love, and unity in the company of family and friends. 🌙✨Please forgive our many short comings and faults. While we celebrate let us not forget those who can’t due to war and oppression. Let us not forget the converts, often alone and isolated.  🌹❤️ 

May this be a very blessed and joyous Eid for all of you!

Eid Sermon and Eid Prayer.

You may find this beneficial. Fiqh of Eid.

From all of us at Prima-Qur’an: Stay blessed, stay loved, stay guided, stay safe.

May Allah (swt) bless your ‘Eid!

May Allah (swt) guide this Ummah to what is beloved to Allah (swt).

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Ramadan Series and Fiqh of Eid

Ramadan Series

“Is there any reward for goodness except goodness?
 (Qur’an 55:60)

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First we would like to share the video by brother Hatim for Ramadan day 29. As people know Muslims use the lunar calendar. Thus, Ramadan is 29 or 30 days.

*Eid prayer and Sunan of Eid*
Firstly we send our greetings and congratulations for finishing this dense educational spiritual course which is Ramadan, now that it’s done we as Muslims should be happy in these blessed days of Eid, and a good quote we found: “Eid is exiting Ramadan not existing Islam”

Thus, we should always keep on remembering Allah and following the Sunnah of his Blessed Prophet (saw).

There are Sunnan and etiquettes we should follow for Eid:
– To give the obligatory Zakat Al fitr, which we mentioned its rulings prior
– Ghusl, brushing, and using perfumes and being in your best form
– Eating before going to prayer
– Walking to the Eid prayer location while changing the path when going and returning
– To perform the prayer outside the city in an outdoor prayer hall
– Saying the Takbir when going to pray
– Exchanging congratulations for the worship in ramadan and for Eid
– Visiting family
– Giving charity, bringing joy to kids, and Halal playing and singing

Some rulings related to Eid:
– It’s not allowed to fast Eid
– You should pray before Eid prayer or after, except if you did the Eid prayer in a mosque so you pray two Rak’as before sitting
– Greetings should be after prayer not before
– The outdoor prayer hall takes the ruling of a mosque
– All people can pray Eid prayer including women and children

How to perform Eid prayer:
– The time of the Eid prayer is the time of Duha, so after Sunrise, it should be delayed a bit so that people can give their Zakat Al Fitr

– The Eid prayer is two Rak’as and from the Sunnah is reading Al A’la first then Surat Al Ghashiyah in the second Rak’a

– No Adhan or Iqamah for Eid prayer

– When performing Eid prayer there are more Takbirs than normal prayers, even though scholars differ in their number but they are all correct by Allah’s will, here are some forms:
– 13 more Takbirs: 5 after Takbir Al Ihram, 5 after reciting in the second Rak’a and 3 after standing from the second Ruku’ (this is the most common in Oman)
– 13 more Takbirs: 6 after Takbir Al Ihram and 7 after reciting in the second Rak’a (Shaykh Ahmed Al Khalili’s choice)
– 12 more Takbirs: 7 after Takbir Al Ihram, 5 after standing for the second Rak’a (Shaykh Saeed Al Qannoobi’s choice)

– After the prayer, the Imam should stand and give a Khutbah(speech) that starts with thanking Allah while increasing Takbirs to give them advice for their religion and to remind them about Zakat Al Fitr

And when Allah spoke about Ramadan he said: (so that you may complete the prescribed period and proclaim the greatness of Allah for guiding you, and perhaps you will be grateful)

After finishing Ramadan

On the topic of Tazkiyah:
Alhamdulillah we mentioned the topics from the book (towards a longer life of faith) by Shaykh Naser Bin Said Al Azri

On the topic of Aqeeda:
We went through more than half the concept in the book (Explanation of Ghayat Al Murad poem) by Shaykh Ahmed Al Khalil

On the topic of Fiqh:
we mentioned around 29 different issues and topics related to prayer, fasting, Zakah and different types of worship.

insha’Allah we will continue the Aqeeda section until we finish the book.

May Allah accept this, and grant us sincerety in seeking knowledge.

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May Allah Forgive the Ummah. May Allah Guide the Ummah.

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Can a child of fornication/adultery be an Imam? Ismaili Shi’a & Ibadi views.

“Moreover, no burdened soul can bear another’s burden. And if one weighed down by a burden calls another to carry his load, zero of it will be carried, even though he is near to kin. You warn only those who fear their Lord in secret and keep up prayer. And whoever purifies himself purifies himself only for his own good. And to Allah is the eventual coming.”(Qur’an 35:18)

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Recently, there were some questions asked by an Ismaili Shi’i about the Ibadi school and whether we allow for the “Walad Zina” to be the Amir of the Muslims, as opposed to the Shi’i or the Maliki.

It was over all a passionate and cordial exchange, and it is hoped that you the reader will benefit.

From the view of the Ibadi school, we need to get something absolutely clear. There is no such thing as an illegitimate child in Islam. There is such a thing as an illegitimate means to conceive a child. A child by right should be brought into the world through wedlock, via marriage.

However, a child in any situation is through the decree of Allah (swt), a blessing from Allah (swt) and an amana (a trust) from Allah (swt).

This idea that some children are tainted by the actions of their parents is alien to the Qur’an. It is a Christian theological concept. To be fair to Christians, the (Disciples of Christ -Campbell Movement) do not believe in inherited sin.

It is overall all a Christian theological concept that we are culpable for what Adam did. We did not tell Adam to eat that apple, did you?

So there is this idea that is very prevalent in Asian society and culture. That idea is that if the son is a hooligan or the daughter did something shameful, it brings shame to the family. No! There is no shame in that family that shame belongs to the individual alone!

“And recite to them the story of Adam’s two sons, in truth, when they both offered a sacrifice [to Allah], and it was accepted from one of them but was not accepted from the other. Said [the latter], “I will surely kill you.” Said [the former], “Indeed, Allah only accepts from the righteous [who fear Him].” (Qur’an 5:27)

So we know among the Ahl Bayt (Household/Tribe/Tent/Lineage) of Adam, that he had two sons. One of his sons was a murderer and the other was murdered. Does this shame cover Adam, Huwa and the son who was murdered? No it does not.

The shame and the guilt belong to the culprit alone.

Let us present a scenario to you: from the dhahir — (the apparent) — what is known—and the ghaib (the unseen).

Now imagine a scenario where a young man (14 years of age), a hafiz of the Qur’an, has beautiful memory retention and recitation. He would like to lead the congregation for the tarweeh prayers in Ramadan.

He is interviewed by the local Mosque Imam (an elder) and the chairperson. They ask the boy, “Can you tell us about the sins of your father?”

What?! May Allah (swt) guide us! May Allah (swt) forgive us! May Allah (swt) open our hearts and eyes.

Imagine you go to an interview and you prepared your resume and your references.

So the hiring department manager says to you, “Can I take a look at your father’s resume and his work history?”

What?! For what? You are the one being hired, not your father.

Another Ismaili Shi’i had messaged one of our team members to ask about women leading the prayer. However, these are not the same categories. As Ismaili Shi’i also have never had a female Imam nor would they allow it. So the question put forward to this Ismaili Shi’a was: “How is claiming that your school is more discriminatory than the Ibadi school a point in your favour?” At that point the individual offered no more interaction.

We do not have a single ruling in our school where a female child would be excluded from anything based upon sins that her parents committed.

The questions still remain. Is it the position of the Shi’i (Ismaili, 12er, Zaydi) that a person is judged based upon what his/her father/mother has done?

In fact, this question should be a cause of pensive reflection. (For the 12er and Ismaili in particular).

Why?

Because if they have a ruling in their books that ‘Walad Zina’ cannot be an Imam, it means that the possibility is there for this to occur, otherwise it wouldn’t be in your books of jurisprudence to begin with. Let them spend time in reflection on what this entails for them and their view of Imams.

How is a child brought in this world? Remember, we don’t believe children bring themselves into being. They are brought into being through conception (which they have no power over). How does such a child be held culpable for the actions of their parents?

Furthermore, it is a matter of Islamic Aqidah that any and all babies and children who die before they reach their age of accountability enter into Jannah without accountability!

This means the worst possible people in history you can imagine. Even if these people were the oppressors and butchers of Muslims themselves, if their young ones died they would enter into Jannah.

That being the case, why will we use such a disgusting appellation ‘Walad Zina’?

Granted, in jurisprudence, if you are talking about the issues surrounding inheritance, it is another matter. Is this child adopted or were they conceived via wedlock or not?

However, to give such a title as if it were some permanent nomenclature ‘Walad Zina’ is akin to calling all the Messengers and Prophets of Allah (swt), ‘The great-great-grandsons of a sinner.’

We don’t use that as some type of permanent nomenclature for the honorable Messengers and Prophets of Allah (swt).

Adam (as) is not remembered as the sinner but as the repentant and one whom Allah (swt) himself taught words of reconciliation, wrapping him up swiftly in a rapture of divine mercy and comfort!

As a Muslim ummah, we need to turn away from this imported Christian theological concept.

This view has no basis in the Qur’an. As unfortunate as the child’s means of coming into the world is, that child’s very being, essence and existence and every breath is a chance to extol the praise and glory of Allah (swt). To render service to his/her parents, community, nation and to all people and even creatures of this Earth.

In the case of the man in particular, will he not get married? Then he will be an IMAM of his family.

Will he not lead the prayers? Then he will be the IMAM of the prayer.

Such a person is righteous and if Allah (swt) has chosen to lead the Muslims, we would give our hands and take the oath of allegiance.

Such a person can be the Amir of the Muslims and Allah (swt) knows best. We want to thank my Shi’i interlocutor for a passionate and respectful discussion. 

If there are any Shi’i reading this that have additional resources, books of jurisprudence and/or remarks that they feel add to the dialogue, feel free to do so in the comment section. 

If you are interested, you may wish to read the following articles:

https://primaquran.com/2022/10/04/polygyny-and-redundant-revelation/

https://primaquran.com/2022/10/05/the-hypocrisy-of-bidi-talaq-innovated-divorces-weighed-against-the-wisdom-of-the-quran/

https://primaquran.com/2023/06/10/some-shia-views-on-the-origin-of-black-people-blatant-racism/

May Allah Guide the Ummah.

May Allah Forgive the Ummah.

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Blowing on Knots. Saving Muslim Marriages

And they learn from them that by which they cause separation between a man and his wife. But they do not harm anyone through it except by permission of Allah. And the people learn what harms them and does not benefit them. But the Children of Israel certainly knew that whoever purchased the magic would not have in the Hereafter any share. And wretched is that for which they sold themselves if they only knew.” (Quran 2:102-103)

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Is it not curious that, out of all the things that people learned concerning magic that an emphasis is put on causing separation between a man and his wife? That there are extremely dark forces at play working against the foundations of a family should be something that we really think about.

In Islam, marriage completes half of one’s faith. 60% of Shari’ah law is focused on the family.

There is a significant gap between the holistic guidance of the Qur’an and Sunnah and the often-mechanistic application of certain legal rulings, particularly concerning marriage and divorce.

The Reality of Supra-Natural Forces and Their Target.

The Qur’an explicitly confirms the existence of magic and the efforts of Shaitan to sow discord, especially within the most sacred of institutions: the family.


“The Shaitan only desires to cause enmity and hatred to spring in your midst by means of intoxicants and games of chance, and to keep you off from the remembrance of Allah and from prayer.” (Qur’an 5:91)

“If an evil impulse from Shaitan provokes you, seek refuge with Allah; He is All-hearing and all-knowing.” (Qur’an 7:200)

“And march forth in the way of forgiveness from your Lord, and for Paradise as wide as the heavens and the earth, prepared for the pious. Those who spend in prosperity and in adversity, who repress anger, and who pardon the people; verily, Allah loves the good-doers.”(Qur’an 3:133-134)

“So whatever you have been given is but enjoyment for this worldly life, but that which is with Allah is better and more lasting for those who believe and put their trust in their Lord. And those who avoid the greater sins, and illegal sexual intercourse, and when they are angry, they forgive.” (Qur’an 42:36)

It can be seen from the aforementioned verses that enmity, anger, hate are things that Shaitan provokes us with. We also see that tempering our anger and forgiveness are more wholesome.

“Say: ‘I seek refuge with the Lord of Daybreak, from the evil of duality, and from the evil of the darkness as it gathers and from the evil of those who blow on knots (l-‘uqadi) and from the evil of an envier when he envies.'” (Qur’an 113:1-5)

From those who ‘blow on knots‘. The term ‘l-uqadi’ .

This term is used in the following instances of the Qur’an:

“There is no blame upon you for that to which you indirectly allude concerning a proposal to women or for what you conceal within yourselves. Allah knows that you will have them in mind. But do not promise them secretly except for saying a proper saying. And do not determine to undertake a (uq’data l-nikahi)marriage contract until the decreed period reaches its end. And know that Allah knows what is within yourselves, so beware of Him. And know that Allah is Forgiving and Forbearing.” (Qur’an 2:235)

“And in case you divorce them even before you have touched them, and you have already ordained for them a marriage-portion, then give her one half of what you have ordained except in case the women remit, or he in whose hand is the (uq’datu l-nikahi) knot of marriage remits; that you remit is nearer to piety. And do not forget the virtue of grace among yourselves; surely Allah is Ever-Beholding of whatever you do.” (Qur’an 2;237)

When you look at those instances of the word, it becomes apparent that ‘blow on knots‘ means ‘blow on marriages’. “Devise plots against marriages.”

The phrase “those who blow on knots” (an-naffathati fil ‘uqad) has a primary meaning referring to sorceresses who literally tie knots and blow spells upon them. However, the linguistic drawn to the “knot of marriage” (‘uqdat an-nikah) in verses 2:235 and 2:237 is a powerful and valid tafsir (interpretation). It highlights that one of the primary objectives of these dark forces is to unravel the sacred bond (‘aqd) between spouses. This is not a minor issue; it is a direct assault on half of a Muslim’s faith.

Aqad literally means to ‘tie’ or to ‘bind’. In English, we have the interesting idiom of ‘tying the knot‘ as a reference to getting married.

The Arabic word Khul means to ‘untie or to disrobe’.

Whereas the word Talaq means to abandon or rid oneself of something.

“Definition of “divorce” (talaq) Literally, the word “divorce” (talaq) means to abandon a thing or get rid of a thing. When an animal tied with a string is untied it is called talaq. If the tied with a string she-camel is untied, the Arabs mention this state as: “talaqa al-naqata talaqan” 23 (The she-camel has been released).”

Source: (Pg 15. Islamic Law of Marriage and Divorce by Shehza Sham)

So, if the term Talaq means to untie, to abandon or to get rid of something, it makes no sense to say to someone “I abandon you” thrice, because in order to be abandoned the second time or the third time just like saying ‘I untie you thrice’.  In order to be ‘untied’ a second or third time, you would need to be tied or in a state of ‘aqad’ for a second or third time.

If we take into account that supra-natural forces are at work in bringing about discord in Muslim marriages, why is it not taken into the calculation by certain Muslim jurists and especially those influenced by ‘tassawuf’ when deciding the fate of Muslim marriages?

Here is something that those of our brothers of the Ahl Sunnah need to take on board. If you believe the following haidth, we have a question for you.

Narrated Aisha:

Magic was worked on Allah’s Messenger (saw) so that he used to think that he had sexual relations with his wives while he actually had not (Sufyan said: That is the hardest kind of magic as it has such an effect)…….the hadith is longer.

Source: (https://sunnah.com/bukhari:5765)

If you believe the best of creation, the Blessed Prophet Muhammed (saw), could be affected by magic to the extent that it created a false reality in his personal life, then it is a form of arrogance for any scholar or jurist to dismiss the possibility that ordinary Muslim couples could be acting under similar influences of anger, hatred, miscommunication, and irrational behavior provoked by Shaitan.

Until today, there has been no meaningful engagement in regard to this question. 

We also need to keep the following verses in mind:

“O Prophet! When any of you divorce women, divorce them during their period of purity and calculate their ‘idda carefully. And have fear of Allah, your Lord. Do not evict them from their homes, nor should they leave, unless they commit an outright indecency. Those are Allah´s limits, and anyone who oversteps Allah´s limits has wronged himself. You never know, it may well be that after that Allah will cause a new situation to develop.” (Qur’an 65:1)

Even though this is what the Qur’an clearly states, the jurist will allow couples’ marriages to be dissolved without asking questions like:

“Did you intend to divorce your wife while she was in menses?”

If the answer is yes, then you cannot intend to divorce your wife while she is in her menses.

If the answer is “I don’t know”, then again, you cannot intend to divorce your wife on an “I don’t know.”

Yet, we, unfortunately, know of many Muslims who have gone through the divorce process, and they have informed us that the judge, the counselor, didn’t even bother to ask this question. Most unfortunate.

Another aspect of the revelation that unfortunately gets ignored is the following:

“Then, when they have reached their term (3 months), take them back in kindness or part from them in kindness, and call to witness two just men among you, and keep your testimony upright for Allah. Whoso believes in Allah and the Last Day is exhorted to act thus. And whosoever keeps his duty to Allah, Allah will appoint a way out for him…” (Qur’an 65:2)

People do not realize it, but it is very possible for people to part amicably. Sometimes a woman cannot produce children, and she has the option to be a co-wife. Whereas, if a man cannot produce children, he does not have the option to be the co-husband.

People can decide to amicably part if having biological children is an absolute deal-breaker in a relationship. They may find, for various other reasons, that they are not suitable as partners.

Yet, unfortunately, once again, the judges or the counselors do not ask about the emotional state of the man/wife when words are uttered? The answer is no.

“If any men among you divorce their wives by Zihar (calling them mothers), they cannot be their mothers: None can be their mothers except those who gave them birth. And in fact, they use words (both) iniquitous and false: but truly Allah is one that blots out (sins), and forgives (again and again).” (Qur’an)

This verse clearly repudiates those men who would use an idiom or simply a verbal expression to divorce women. This verse is also clear when coupled with other verses about having just two witnesses present, and consultation that it repudiates instant divorce simply through pronunciation.

“They are invited to the book of Allah to settle their dispute”. (Qur’an 3:23)

“And this is a Book which We have revealed as a blessing, so follow it and be righteous, that you may receive mercy”. (Qur’an 6:155).

“Lo! this Qur’an guides to that which is most upright”. (Qur’an 17:9)

The Juristic (Fiqh) Response vs. The Holistic (Tazkiyah) Approach

The Problem: In many contemporary contexts, these two streams have become separated. A judge in a civil or family court, or even an imam acting in an advisory capacity, often wears only the hat of the jurist. They apply the law as a set of rules without the accompanying spiritual and pastoral context that is essential for dealing with something as sensitive as divorce.

The Qur’anic procedure for divorce is not a mere utterance but a process designed for contemplation and reconciliation.

Divorce during Menses (Tuhr): The ruling in (65:1) to divorce women during their period of purity is precisely to prevent a rash decision made in a state of emotional turmoil (which can sometimes coincide with a wife’s menses). A man who says “I divorce you” in a fit of rage during her menses has transgressed Allah’s law. The juristic consensus is that such a divorce is still legally effective but is considered bid’ah (reprehensible innovation) and a sin.

The practical consequence is that the marriage is often considered dissolved, and the crucial pastoral step of questioning the validity of the intention and context is skipped.

The Role of Witnesses and Kindness: Verse (65:2) emphasize kindness, witnesses, and a measured process. This stands in stark contrast to the instantaneous, often unilateral, and highly emotional divorces that occur. The Qur’anic ideal is a mediated separation, not a sudden outburst.

Before any divorce is finalized, a mandatory mediation process should be instituted that involves:

  • Questioning the emotional state and intention at the time of the utterance.
  • Investigating possible external factors (family interference, financial stress, etc.).
  • Recommending ruqyah (Qur’anic healing) if there is a legitimate suspicion of magic or evil eye.
  • Exhausting all avenues for reconciliation, as the Qur’an commands.

May Allah (swt) sanctify and bless all of your marriages. May Allah (swt) protect you all from the evil eye. May you and your spouse work out your differences. May Allah (swt) make your wife or wives appear as the most loving and beautiful of women. May Allah (swt) make your husband appear to you as the most kind, generous, understanding and handsome of men.

You might be interested in reading the following articles:

https://primaquran.com/2023/04/05/can-a-child-of-fornication-adultery-be-an-imam/

https://primaquran.com/2022/10/04/polygyny-and-redundant-revelation/

https://primaquran.com/2022/10/05/the-hypocrisy-of-bidi-talaq-innovated-divorces-weighed-against-the-wisdom-of-the-quran/

May Allah Guide the Ummah.

May Allah Forgive the Ummah.

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The position of the Ibadi school on marrying Ahl Kitab

“This day are things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. Lawful unto you in marriage are not only chaste women who are believers, but chaste women among the People of the Book, revealed before your time when you give them their due dowers, and desire charity, not lewdness, nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith, fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter, he will be in the ranks of those who have lost.” (Qur’an 5:5)

“O you who have believed, do not prohibit the good things which Allah has made lawful to you and do not transgress. Indeed, Allah does not like transgressors.” (Qur’an 5:87)

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This entry will give the position of the Muslims, otherwise known as (Ahl Haqq Wal Istiqama) or the Ibadi school. It will give our justifications from the Qur’an and Sunnah for marrying the people of the book (Jews and Christians).

Companions such as Ibn Abbas, Saad bin al-Musayyab, Said bin Jubair, Uthman, Talha, Tawus, Mujahid are all known to have married people of the book. The Blessed Messenger (saw) himself is known to have married from among the Ahl Kitab.

So, yes, in the Ibadi school, a Muslim man can marry a Christian or Jewish woman if certain conditions are met.

 Ad-Darooriyyat Al-Khams—The Five Basic Necessities that are protected and recognized by Islamic law-shari’ah. 

The five necessities—religion, life, intellect, lineage, and property are defined.

This ruling would fall under the category of: preservation of lineage & preservation of religion.

Among our brothers from the Ahl Sunnah, there are two positions. The position of Imam Malik and Imam Abu Hanifa is that Muslim men can marry Christian and Jewish women and until today there are no restrictions put on this.

The position of Imam Ahmad and Imam Shafi’i is that Muslim men cannot marry Christian or Jewish women.

The position of the Ibadi school is in between these two camps. It is very clear that we cannot make impermissible what Allah (swt) made permissible.

That being said, there is a context to these verses and conditions that must be met.

Conditions placed on marrying the Ahl Kitab.

  • 1st condition is that this takes place under Muslim governance, where there is full compliance of the shariah law.
  • The 2nd Condition is that the interest of the Muslims dominates. The children, for example, are to be raised as Muslims.
  • The 3rd condition is that the Muslim man actually is a practicing Muslim.
  • The 4th Condition is that the Jewish or Christian woman actually be practicing Judaism or Christianity.
  • The 5th condition is that she did not ever commit fornication or have an extramarital affair.

Understanding the first condition.

“O you who have believed, obey Allah and obey the Messenger and those in authority among you. And if you disagree over anything, refer it to Allah and the Messenger, if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. That is the best way and best in result.” (Qur’an 4:59)

What happens today in North Africa and in Turkey is that many of these men who are exposed to the Maliki and Hanafi schools of jurisprudence will marry women from the United States, Europe, Russia. Often the children of these marriages are split between nationalities. The inheritance laws are not decided by the laws of Islam they are decided by secular institutions. The fate of the children will be decided by the laws of those lands. More often than not, the court awards the custody of the children to the mother. The children are brought up without a Muslim father, an Imam leading the prayers and teaching the deen of Islam. This is totally unacceptable.

Understanding the second condition.

“Our Lord, and make us Muslims that submit to You, and from our descendants a community that submits to You. And show us our rites and accept our repentance. Indeed, You are Ever-Accepting of our repentance, the Most Merciful.” (Qur’an 2:128)

“O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your own families from a Fire whose fuel is mankind and stones, (and) over which are harsh, severe Angels, who do not disobey Allah in whatever He commands them and who perform whatever they are commanded to.” (Qur’an 66:6)

Anyone who loves their children does not want to expose them to the dangers of hellfire. The best and clearest way to help ensure this is to raise them as Muslims. To instill in them the articles of faith. The love and fear of Allah (swt). The love of the Blessed Messenger (saw) and following his noble example. Muslims cannot give blessings to their children to be raised by other religions because they were all abrogated with the coming of Islam. Qur’an 2:106 establishes this.

“Men are in charge of women by right of what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend for maintenance from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in the husband’s absence what Allah would have them, guard. But those wives from whom you fear ill/strange conduct advise them; then if they persist, forsake them in bed; then if they persist strike them. But if they obey you once more, seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.” (Qu’ran 4:34)

It is difficult enough to get Muslim-majority nations to want to establish the Imamate. Does anyone think that non-Muslim majority nations have a vested interest in doing so? They have different world views and different principles upon which they base their concepts of justice. Many of them promote egalitarianism. Too many times, Muslim men are taken by the charms and beauty of non-Muslim women. Non-Muslim women may make promises to them. However, none of those promises are legally binding. This will lead us to understand the third condition.

Understanding the third and fourth conditions.

“And do not marry polytheistic (l-mush’rikati) women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men to your women until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.” (Qur’an 2:221)

This verse is ‘Aam. There is an exception or allowance to marry the mush’rikati women. That exception is given in Qur’an 5:5

Many of these Muslim men who want to marry Christian or Jewish women are themselves not practicing Islam. That is not a good foundation to start a marriage with a Muslim woman, let alone a non-Muslim woman. The children are likely to be swayed by the parent who shows more conviction and practice of their faith tradition than the parent that does not show conviction or practice their faith tradition. That is why Allah (swt) says that marrying someone who is a slave is better than marrying a free, non-believing woman, even though her /his looks may please you.

Allah (swt) also said you can marry Christian and Jewish women.

Understanding fourth and fifth conditions.

“This day are things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. Lawful unto you in marriage are not only chaste women who are believers, but chaste women among the People of the Book, revealed before your time when you give them their due dowry, and desire charity, not lewdness, nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith, fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter, he will be in the ranks of those who have lost.” (Qur’an 5:5)

That Christian or Jewish woman has to be a practicing Jewish or Christian woman. She has to follow the tenets and edicts of her faith tradition. She cannot be a ‘nominal’ Jew or a ‘nominal’ Christian. If the Christian or Jew converts to Buddhism, Hinduism, Sikhism, Taoism, Shintoism, New Age spirituality, or anything of the kind, the marriage can become null and void.

Also, Allah (swt) says, ‘chaste women’—muhsanatu. This means if these women have committed fornication or adultery, you cannot marry them. So this only leaves you with the option of marrying someone who is a virgin or a divorcee.

These Muslim men should be aware of one of the very strong positions in the Ibadi school in regard to themselves (the Muslim men) being chaste.

The same rule applies to Muslims as well. Muslims who have committed fornication for adultery can only marry other Muslims who have done similar. They cannot marry chaste believers, nor can they marry those people they have done fornication/adultery with.

Please see the article here:

This is not an example of abrogation. This is an example of a specification. Now you ask yourself are these conditions met today?

The Ibadi school is priority to Muslim Women First.

What happens in places where the Maliki and Hanafi schools reign supreme? You do see Muslim men often marry “Christian” or “Jewish” women, many of whom are actually agnostic or even atheist. They do so while many hundreds of thousands of Muslim women go unmarried. There are hundreds of thousands of Muslim women who are widows, divorcees, orphans, single people, or simply never been married before.

Shouldn’t our priority be the Ummah of Muhammed (saw)? Remember the wisdom of Allah (swt)

“And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you.”

What happens in those places where the Shafi’i school is dominant? For example: places like Indonesia or Malaysia? What happens is that Muslim men or Muslim women will tell non-Muslims to convert to Islam, and then they will marry them. At least these approaches are more sensible. Bringing people to Islam. That, of course, is acceptable by Islamic law. However, every action is judged by intention and so too will be the fruit of that intention.

There are thousands of Muslim men and women who convert to Islam every year of their own free will and volition. Not under any social pressure to convert because of love. Would it not be wise to give preference to these people for marriage?

May Allah (swt) continue to guide the Ummah of Muhammed (saw)!

You may be interested in reading the following articles:

https://primaquran.com/2023/04/05/can-a-child-of-fornication-adultery-be-an-imam

https://primaquran.com/2022/10/05/the-hypocrisy-of-bidi-talaq-innovated-divorces-weighed-against-the-wisdom-of-the-quran

May Allah Guide the Ummah.

May Allah Forgive the Ummah.

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Which Mushriks can Muslims marry?

“And do not marry polytheistic (l-mush’rikati) women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.” (Qur’an 2:221)

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“And do not marry polytheistic (l-mush’rikati) women until they believe. And a believing slave woman is better than a polytheist, even though she might please you. And do not marry polytheistic men until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.” (Qur’an 2:221)

This verse is known as ‘Aam. It is general. The ruling applies in all situations unless there is an exception made.

The exception to this ruling is the following verse:

“This day [all] good foods have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith – his work has become worthless, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers.” (Qur’an 5:5)

This above verse is khaas — It is specific. Notice the words: “This day” meaning before that it was not the case. This often happens in the Qur’an. There is a general ruling and there is either further restriction on a certain aspect or an allowance to the general ruling.

This specific verse also has a further specification in that this allowance is only given to Muslim men to marry the mushrik women from among the People of the Book. Whereas a Muslim woman is not allowed to marry the mushrik men from among the People of the Book.

Why this specific allowance? The Qur’an mentions the Torah and the Injeel. There are shared histories, prophets and beliefs about angels and so forth. The thinking is that the mushrik women from among the People of the Book will be moved by the compassion, love, protection, warmth and guidance given by the Muslim husband. Also, considering that in the situation where such a marriage would be allowed, the children would be Muslim by default, there should be little barrier for these mushrik from the Ahl Kitab to embrace Islam.

For example: Mariyah al-Qibtiyyah (May Allah be pleased with her) was a Christian whom, after marrying the Blessed Prophet (saw), converted to Islam, and she died upon the haqq!

However, note the warning by Allah (swt).

“And whoever denies the faith — his work has become worthless, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers.” An understanding that this could go the other way. The mushrik woman may convince the man to leave his faith.

This is why it becomes all the more clear under which situations and circumstances the Ibadi school allows such marriages to take place.

https://primaquran.com/2023/02/21/ibadi-school-position-on-marrying-ahl-kitab

Fight those who do not believe in Allah or in the Last Day and who do not consider unlawful what Allah and His Messenger have made unlawful and who do not adopt the religion of truth from those who were given the Scripture – [fight] until they give the jizyah willingly while they are humbled. The Jews say, “Ezra is the son of Allah “; and the Christians say, “The Messiah is the son of Allah .” That is their statement from their mouths; they imitate the saying of those who were kafara (ungrateful disbelievers [before them]. May Allah destroy them; how are they deluded? They have taken their scholars and monks as lords besides Allah , and [also] the Messiah, the son of Mary. And they were not commanded except to worship one God; there is no deity except Him. Exalted is He above whatever they associate (yush’rikuna) with Him. They want to extinguish the light of Allah with their mouths, but Allah refuses except to perfect His light, although the (ungrateful disbelievers) dislike it. It is He who has sent His Messenger with guidance and the religion of truth to manifest it over all religions, although those who associate others (l-mush’rikuna) with Allah dislike it. (Qur’an 9:29-33)

“Those who say, “Allah is the Messiah, son of Mary,” have certainly become ungrateful disbelievers. The Messiah ˹himself˺ said, “O Children of Israel! Worship Allah—my Lord and your Lord.” Whoever associates (yush’rik) others with Allah ˹in worship˺ will surely be forbidden Paradise by Allah. Their home will be the Fire. And the wrongdoers will have no helpers. Those who say, “Allah is one in a Trinity,” have certainly become ungrateful disbelievers.There is only One God. If they do not stop saying this, those who disbelieve among them will be afflicted with a painful punishment.” (Qur’an 5:72-73)

Those slippery followers of Perennialism and Qur’an 5:5

“This day [all] good food have been made lawful, and the food of those who were given the Scripture is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them. And [lawful in marriage are] chaste women from among the believers and chaste women from among those who were given the Scripture before you, when you have given them their due compensation, desiring chastity, not unlawful sexual intercourse or taking [secret] lovers. And whoever denies the faith – his work has become worthless, and he, in the Hereafter, will be among the losers.” (Qur’an 5:5)

Now, the slippery among those who follow perennialism have three choices here.

  1. Tell us the sect/denomination of Christians today that would meet the acceptable criteria of “believers” and those upon true understanding of Allah, that would be acceptable in accordance with declarations made by the Qur’an. Those that would not meet with damnation because of their theological positions? Would they be Orthodox Christians? Catholic Christians? Protestant Christians? Perhaps Jehovah’s’ Witness and/or Unitarian Christians?
  2. Admit that such Christians from Ahl Kitab are no longer existent and thus, this verse, as much as it applies to such Christians, is no longer operational. 
  3. Concede the point to the correct understanding that the Ibadi school has of the verses.

“And to warn those who claim, Allah has taken to Himself a son, a thing about which they have no knowledge, neither they nor their ancestors. Dreadful is the word that comes out of their mouths. What they utter is merely a lie.” (Qur’an 18:4-5)

Why warn those who claim this?

Because anyone who makes false claims about Allah (swt) will be brought for punishment.

“Allah has children. They are simply liars. Has He chosen daughters over sons? What is the matter with you? How do you judge? Will you not then be mindful? Or do you have any compelling proof? Then bring us your scripture, if what you say is true! They have also established a relationship between Him and the jinn. Yet, the jinn themselves know well that such people will certainly be brought for punishment. Glorified is Allah far above what they claim!” (Qur’an 37: 152-159)

Furthermore, as we explained in our article about the correct understanding if Allah (swt) forgives shirk or not we have shown the text that is relied upon is a reference to the Ahl Kitab.

“Surely Allah does not forgive associating (yush’raka)˹others˺ with Him ˹in worship˺, but forgives anything else of whoever He wills. Indeed, whoever (yush’rik) associates ˹others˺ with Allah has clearly gone far astray.” (Qur’an 4:116)

“Indeed, Allah does not forgive associating (yush’raka) others with Him ˹in worship˺, but forgives anything else of whoever He wills. And whoever (yush’rik) associates others with Allah has indeed committed a grave sin.” (Qur’an 4:48)

“O you who were given the Scripture, believe in what We have sent down, confirming that which is with you, before We obliterate faces and turn them toward their backs or curse them as We cursed the sabbath-breakers. And ever is the decree of Allah accomplished. Indeed, Allah does not forgive association with Him, but He forgives what is less than that for whom He wills. And he who associates others with Allah has certainly fabricated a tremendous sin. Have you not seen those who claim themselves to be pure? Rather, Allah purifies whom He wills, and injustice is not done to them, [even] as much as a thread [inside a date seed]. Look how they invent about Allah untruth, and sufficient is that as a manifest sin. Have you not seen those who were given a portion of the Scripture, who believe in superstition and false objects of worship and say about the disbelievers, “These are better guided than the believers as to the way”? (Qur’an 4:47-4:51)

You can read our article on that here:

This particular issue is one in which an orientalist and western academic made a mistake in regard to the jurisprudence of the Ibadi school. You can see our comment on that error here:

May Allah (swt) guide the Ummah!

May Allah (swt) forgive the Ummah!

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Adultery and Post Fornication Marriages -Shaykh Juma Muhammed al-Mazrui

“The fornicator marries none but the fornicator and the idolater marries none but the idolatress. This is all forbidden to the believers.” (Qur’an 24:3)

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One of the known positions in the Ibadi schoolis that one cannot marry a person whom they have committed fornication or adultery with. Rather, those people who have done so are to be punished, banished and then only to marry among those who have committed similar acts.

Those who associate partners with Allah or worship other than Allah are to be married among themselves. Those Muslims who have committed adultery/fornication are to only marry those Muslims who have similarly committed acts of adultery/fornication. They are forbidden to marry the ones they have committed fornication/adultery with.

 Ad-Darooriyyat Al-Khams—The Five Basic Necessities that are protected and recognized by Islamic law-shari’ah. 

The five necessities—religion, life, intellect, lineage, and property are defined.

This ruling would fall under the category of: preservation of lineage.

The following is a presentation put forward by our respected teacher, Shaykh Juma Muhammed al-Mazrui. -May Allah continue to bless him and benefit us by him.

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If you notice, many English translations of this text seem convoluted. It gives the impression that if a Muslim man or woman committed fornication that they could marry an idol worshiper. Nothing can be further from the truth.

We do want to comment that we personally feel that all translations and translators of the Qur’an have failed to convey what Qur’an 24:3 means and we have yet to see a translation that translates the meaning accurately. We put this right up there with Qur’an 4:157 as the worst translated text that translations and translators have failed to convey.

One may see for themselves the disparate translations of Qur’an 24:3 here:

https://www.islamawakened.com/quran/24/3/

The major reason why we loath all translations of Qur’an 24:3 is that when you look at it:

“The fornicator shall not marry any but a fornicatress or idolatress.” It gives the impression that a Muslim male or female or committed fornication has two options for his/her future.

a) marry a believer who has done a similar offense.

b) marry a mushrik who has done a similar offense.

We would translate it as: “The fornicator marries none but the fornicator and the idolater marries none but the idolatress.” The reason that the mushirk is put in this context is to show the level of disdain that Allah (swt) has for people who commit fornication.

Looking at the verse itself:

“T”The fornicator marries none but the fornicator and the idolater marries none but the idolatress. This is all forbidden to the believers” (Qur’an 24:3)

  1. The believer does not marry the mushrik
  2. The believer who commits fornication marries only a believer that similarly has committed fornication. 

What becomes very strange is how some will agree to point 1. They will say yes, a believer can never marry a mushrik. Yet, those same people will say, but a believer who has committed fornication can marry a believer who has not done such an act! 

This is clearly inconsistent. 

We wanted to comment on two sections of this article. The first is the following paragraph.

“There are cases where some men pursuing an illegal sexual relationship, trick and deceive women that resist their sexual advances. The most commonly deceptive trick used by these men is to entice women into fake marriage proposals in order to coerce an unlawful relationship with them. Many women, especially younger women, are duped by these men, so they accept and yield to their seduction only to realize later that it was an utter lie.” -Shaykh Juma Muhammed al-Mazrui

“It is logically conceivable, therefore, that the legalization of post-fornication and post-adultery marriages has been an open invitation for committing adultery among young Muslim men and women. The permissibility of post-fornication and post-adultery marriages has been the reason for moral corruption and carefree attitude among young people when it comes to sexual relationships. In such societies, men see no consequences for their conduct; and a gullible woman thinks she will be rewarded with marriage by succumbing to a pre-marriage sexual relationship. She will have no reason not to believe, since the society she lives in has accepted such marriages. Had the idea of the impermissibility of post-fornication and post-adultery marriages prevailed in Muslim societies and been entrenched in their culture, a Muslim woman would not have been taken advantage of: she could recognize a lie when she heard it. She could respond to it by saying that post-fornication and post-adultery marriages are not allowed in the Islamic religion. So the fact is that there will be no marriage between us after we engage in an illegal sexual relationship.” -Shaykh Juma Muhammed al-Mazrui

Prima Qur’an comments:

The above paragraph are very sound in reasoning. Our respected teacher, Shaykh Juma Muhammed al-Mazrui has made a very forceful argument.

“That is because each of the two partners, in such marriages, is most likely to doubt the other to be an adulterer, since as adulterers they found each other prior to their marriage. The fact that one spouse knows what mischief the other spouse is capable of doing can be utterly destructive to their mutual trust and mutual respect, and eventually to the marriage itself. Thus, it can be conclusively said that mutual trust and mutual respect lead to happiness and tranquility in any marriage. Conversely, the lack of trust and respect between spouses, which could be very much the result of their premarital mating, nourishes the meltdown of love and increases tension in the marriage.” -Shaykh Juma Muhammed al-Mazrui

Prima Qur’an comments:

Here we disagree with our respected teacher because the reasoning is not sound.

It is not explained how a person who has committed fornication/adultery and then marries another person who has similarly committed fornication/adultery would not suspect their spouse of mischief. After all, the reason they know they are able to marry each other is because of the very fact that both are equal for doing the same sin.

Meaning the only reason I have access to you for marriage is because you have been guilty of committing the exact same thing that I have been found guilty of.

Note — this is not an argument against the fiqh position; this is an argument against the use of rai’ (reason) that does not seem to follow through.

By limiting those who have committed fornication/adultery to marrying only those who have similarly done such things, it is one possible safety measure to stop the spread of sexual infectious diseases. Or, perhaps, to allow those who may have contracted an infectious sexual disease to enjoy the fruits of marriage and companionship among themselves. 

The position is strong the practical implimentation is wanting.

This particular position in our school is very strong. We do not dispute this point. However, our school would struggle with practical implimentation of this ruling.

No one is saying that a person who committed fornication can never get married, but if the ruling is that they can only marry someone who has similarly committed fornication (not the one they did the deed with), how does this work?

Those in our school who hold this position there is a real disconnect here between the ruling and the practicality. This is especially true when we consider the following.

  1. Islam does not encourage one to broadcast the sins that Allah (swt) has covered.
  2. Islam allows for and encourages the safeguard of one’s honour.

A brother or sister does not necessarily approach friends or respected elders and say: “Excuse me, I have committed fornication. Do you have anyone among your friends or relatives that has committed fornication that is looking to get married?” 

There is an encounter that was mentioned to me concerning Shaykh Ahmed Al Khalili (h). He was in the middle of Oman and approached by a man from the Hanafi school. The man said, “Oh Shaykh, I have committed Zina and I really love this woman and I want her to be the mother of our children.” The Shaykh replied to the man: “May Allah give you better than her.”

Though it is not polite to say to the man’s face, we imagine that the Shaykh also thought: “May Allah give her better than you.”

Jabir reported Allah’s Messenger (saw) as saying:

There is a remedy for every malady, and when the remedy is applied to the disease it is cured with the permission of Allah, the Exalted and Glorious.

Source: (https://sunnah.com/muslim:2204)

Do note that this is a widely known position in the school. There are other voices in the Ibadi school that do not agree with the above position. If you are thinking of adopting the school or have questions on this matter, kindly consult a scholar of the school.

You maybe interested in reading the following:

https://primaquran.com/2022/10/05/the-hypocrisy-of-bidi-talaq-innovated-divorces-weighed-against-the-wisdom-of-the-quran/

May Allah Guide the Ummah.

May Allah Forgive the Ummah.

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A collection of articles on the Prayer of the Blessed Prophet (saw).

“The Messenger of Allah is certainly a good example for those of you who have hope in Allah and in the Day of Judgment and who remember Allah very often.” (Qur’an 33:21)

“And perform the prayer, and pay the alms, and bow with those that bow.” (Qur’an 2:43)

“And obey Allah and obey the Messenger. But if you turn away, then Our Messenger is responsible only for conveying the message clearly. (Quran 64:12)

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This is a collection of articles that have been written about prayer. The way the Blessed Prophet (saw) did his prayer.

The way some who claim to be those who uphold the truth have lied to the masses and outright distorted the way that the Prophet (saw) did his prayers.

It is hoped that these articles will be an eye-opener for many.  That one will be tranquil in their prayers.  Dear brother and sisters, in our prayers we do not have a position where we turn to the left or the right. This happens at the termination of the prayer with the taslim: ‘As salamu ‘alikum’.

Our prayers are about facing forward and looking forward and keeping our heads forward. When our focus is on Allah (swt) we do not concern ourselves with what others are doing. When our focus is on what people do in the prayer rather than our prayer (whether it was accepted or not/ whether it was sincere or not), then we become among the distracted.

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that:

The Messenger of Allah (saw) entered the Masjid, then a man entered and prayed, then he came and greeted the Messenger of Allah(saw) with Salam. The Messenger of Allah (saw)returned his greeting and said: Go back and pray, for you have not prayed.” So he went back and prayed as he has prayed before, then he came to the Prophet (saw) and greeted him with Salam, and the Messenger of Allah (saw) said to him: “Wa alaika as-salam (and upon you be peace). Go back and pray for you have not prayed.” He did that three times, then the man said: “By the One Who sent you with the truth, I cannot do any better than that; teach me.” He said: “When you stand to pray, say the Takbir, then recite whatever is easy for you of Quran. Then bow until you have tranquility in your bowing, then stand up until you are standing straight. Then prostrate until you have tranquility in your prostration, then sit up until you have tranquility in your sitting. Then do that throughout your entire prayer.

Source: (https://sunnah.com/nasai:884)

Be tranquil in your prayers!

The value of the prayer in Islam.

Step by step video guide that shows the prayer of the Blessed Prophet (saw).

A very useful guide: Prayer in sketches and color prints by Dr. Ali Bin Hilal Al’Abri.

There is not a single uncontested hadith that says the Blessed Prophet (saw) would pray with his right hand over his left hand.

What are the Sunnah prayers in the Ibadi school? (Mu’akkad, Ghair mu’akkadah, Qabliyah, B’adiyyah, Witr)

The Ibadis do not raise their hands at all during the prayers.

The complete salah (prayer) based only on sahih hadiths impossible? The importance of the living transmitted sunnah vs documented sunnah.

Ibadis follow the blessed Sunnah of opening the hands in prayer.

Who is truly reviving the authentic Sunnah of the Prayer of the Blessed Prophet (saw) ?

Tashahhud in the Ibadi school.

manipulation of hadith to advocate prayer positions.

Salafis, Wahabbis and their lies – they lie even on their own Imams!

Salafi preachers Bilal Philips and Assim Al Hakeem lie about Imam Malik, For Assim Al Hakeem Imam Malik is like any: “Tom, Dick, Harry.” -his words!

Salafi preacher Assim Al-Hakeem: “You can pray with arms to the side.”

Muhammed Mufti Muneer: Ignores the Athar focuses on Problematic hadith.

Ecumenical Ibadi Islam: We can pray behind any of the Ahl Qibla.

Ibadi Muslims can pray behind the Imams of any of the Ahl Qibla.

Non Ibadi Muslims: Can they pray behind us?

Prayind behind an Ibadi Imam: Sunni views run the gamut.

Salafi Preacher: If he is willing to throw Imam Malik on the bus imagine what he may say about the Ibadi?

Practical pragmatic Ibadi Islam: Blending in to save your life.

Recently adopted the Ibadi school? Afraid that the Muslims at your local masjid may physically assault you? We have you covered.

Very useful tools to assist you in learning the prayer of the Blessed Prophet (saw).

Salaat Simplied Z Card.

Premier Ibadi Fiqh book in the English language on the performance of the Prayer by Shaykh Al-Muatasim Al-Mawali 

May Allah Guide the Ummah.

May Allah Forgive the Ummah.

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